And yes! Please say out loud. “positive thoughts to Coco!” That would be marvelous. I would feel very good knowing that you were doing that. It would make me feel worthy and relevant and cherished. When we send those messages into the world, we have the power to impact the collective consciousness. WE have that power. By choosing not to pray in the traditional evangelical bastardize sense with the term, we are not surrendering our power to God and trust that God will fix everything, which absolves us of our personal responsibility. I come out of a long tradition of intense spiritual abuse. I’ll send you links to the evangelical Christian mindfuck, parts I, II, and III.