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Empowered Online Dating — Which site should I try???
*An excerpt from my book, Empowered Online Dating
There are all kinds of dating sites tailored to targeted demographics, such as BBW sites, senior sites, and fetish sites. It’s important YOU do the research and determine which sites best fit what you’re looking for. And there’s no reason why you can’t be on a number of sites that cross a number of your interests. Perhaps you want to try a Christian site but also want to try a fetish site. So, what! You’re a Christian who has a fetish! Not so very unusual!
Connect with folks who can share their experiences on different sites. I’ve even been known to ask my own matches what they like and what they don’t like about my profile. They’ve definitely asked me to put up more or more specific profile pictures upon occasion. Invaluable feedback. Put a request for advice on your social media page. Hey, it’s another way to connect! You might meet someone while doing your due diligence!
I use one of the most popular sites. It’s free, I don’t pay for the upgraded membership, I don’t need to. I connect with enough people as it is. Many people are of the opinion this site is a hookup site. And it certainly can be. Any site can be. It’s important to remember a site may have a particular reputation, but you’re bringing the unique ingredient: you. Your experiences are…