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Exchanging Pictures
Most dating sites don’t allow the exchange of pictures. And if they do, exchanging intimate pictures may go against their community rules. Be cautious of that. Getting banned from a site is devastating! It’s happened to me because of a boob picture! Not worth it! It was one of my favorite go to sites!
If you’re unable to exchange pictures on the dating site, that leaves messaging apps and then, text messaging phone to phone.
Before I exchange pictures outside of a dating site, I may give my match specific instructions to take a selfie and send it back to me. If they get mad about it, block their ass. Once you’ve moved off the dating site, no legitimate match will ever have an issue proving they’re legitimate. Plus, proving they’re legitimate is a great step towards getting your pictures! And most men are on that like white on rice!
Giving selfie instructions serves two purposes. First, you can match the selfie to their profile pictures. And second, you know they’ve taken the picture right then because they’ve followed your instructions. Don’t make your instructions too easy. A lot of people ask their matches to hold up two fingers. Ask for something a bit different. Ask them to hold their hand over their head. Or ask them to hold their hand over their heart.
