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I need a lover that won’t drive me crazy.

Coco Densmore
5 min readFeb 4, 2024

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February 3, 2024

I didn’t have vaginal intercourse with David, my last boyfriend. He had erectile dysfunction. And there was a whole lot of other shit that went down, too. Our relationship was a sexual disaster. Our relationship was an emotional disaster. Man, did things go south. Red flags red flags. But as is my habit, I overlooked them. I gave him and I gave “us” the benefit of the doubt.

At first, it was OK we didn’t have vaginal intercourse. We were waiting for his new prescription to come (which he should have made sure he had on hand WHEN HE PUT UP HIS HINGE PROFILE!!!). So, at the beginning, we did other things. But I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again. I have a finicky vagina.

Many men assume since they made their last girlfriend cum, they can do the same thing again and make their new girlfriend cum! And after she cums, she will bow down and worship at the altar of his testicles, thanking him over and over for making her cum like she’s never cum before!

Uhhhhh…

WRONG!

Every woman is different. Our bodies are different. What it takes for a woman to have an orgasm is different for every woman.

Duh.

Duh.

Duh.

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Coco Densmore
Coco Densmore

Written by Coco Densmore

Coco Densmore writes about Embracing Her Single, being HSV-2+, living with bipolar mental illness, and overcoming childhood sexual abuse. www.cocodensmore.com.

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