I'm a white women and I date all men. Growing up in the home I grew up in, well, I recently put words to it - I was raised by white Christian nationalists. When I was younger, dating a black man was taboo and that's what made it so exciting. I'm 61 now. I've done all the taboo things I've ever wanted to do. I've come to understand that "taboo" is mostly just regular stuff - normal human sexuality. Now, it's only character that matters. My number one criteria: he must be kind.