I'm so glad you heard my heart. I'm careful with putting that word "wrong" on it. Yes, it's accurate, but it's so complex why we choose to involve ourselves in these relationships. There is always always always context. A friend asked me why women have affairs and I wrote this in response. My heart is with you. Email me any time cocodensmore@outlook.com. https://medium.com/the-scarlett-letter/we-must-always-look-at-the-entire-picture-before-we-pass-judgment-on-others-and-especially-before-df7da5a4e4d3