My experience has been that men in their 20s and 30s and 40s specifically seek out older women that are my size. I am 59 and I weigh 320 pounds. I have had an incredible run the last few years. People are going to judge me and jump to conclusions and wonder how I could possibly have fallen into this lovely lovely adventure with these young men. But I am telling you I have had the time of my life and I wouldn’t trade it for anything. Yes you are older, yes you are larger, don’t let that stop you from anything because it doesn’t have to. I’m not saying that you have to go on a big hunt like some kind of wild ass cougar, but if you’re looking for something specific and you are open, you will find it. All men are not shallow. The men I have met and connected with are incredible. And it hasn’t just been just for sex, although that’s been an unexpectedly fulfilling aspect of my online dating adventures! But many of the men I’ve met online have become dear dear friends. And not all of them are young, many of them are my age. I must simply admonish you: STAY OPEN!