Oh one more thing. I online date and have since 2016. I've made a lot of friends, good friends. My goal is not to get involved with anyone romantically. If that happened, and it sometimes does, that's fine. But my goal is always friendship. Men should disclose their relationship status and intentions in their profile, some don't. I'm not disappointed if I meet someone interesting and they're just wanting friendship or even something casual. I find that if friendship is my goal, the rewards are immense. If I'm focused on finding someone for a romantic relationship, I can rush into a bad situation, or else be continually disappointed. I just don't think that's how online dating works. Friendship FIRST, let the rest come about if it's right for both of you.