Or, you will develop new friendships with people that understand anxious avoidant attachment disorder (me) who are able to affirm you and also set healthy boundaries so you see your humanity and your worth reflected in them, and are able to heal. You can heal from anxious avoidant attachment disorder. It is a sister to Borderline Personality Disorder, which I've also been diagnosed with, but have come out of to a great extent. This book was helpful: https://www.amazon.com/Get-Out-Here-Borderline-Personality/dp/1592850995