We all are responsible for our choices. Yet, there is always context. Most people, partnered and single, get involved in affairs because they feel a lack within and quite foolishly believe an affair will alleviate their pain. That's justification for nothing - but it's important to look at context. Nothing is all bad or all good. To place blame at all is to fail to acknowledge all the unseen aspects of why the affair occurred to begin with. Only those involved in the triangle have the opportunty to see all the contributing factors. And even those in the triangle may not be able to see those factors clearly. Why do people cheat? A million reasons. Furthermore, every one of us is capable of acts we never thought possible.